What Do You Think?

take away the tattoos and piercings.......

What Summer is All About

Swimming, swimming, swimming

and the occasional rootbeer... rootbeer goatee...or Grape Crush mustache...

In the Garden

These are proof that I can garden. This daylily is my absolute favorite. I want to plant it everywhere. I get compliments on it by all who come to my house.

You can't see it in the picture, but it is covered with gold dust.

Leighton likes to pick them and take them to her teacher everyday.

Oh, How They Change in a Year

First Day of School...Last Day of School... First...
Last....

Why I Don't Buy School Pictures

Carly has this awkward pose. and Leighton looks the same in EVERY picture.

These were her fall pictures.

Are You Laughing!?!

I was loading the dishwasher and Jensyn was helping....herself to a taste of the Jet Dry! She had opened the rinse agent hole and had licked the (for lack of a better term) dipstick. I washed her mouth out with water and called Poison Control, just in case. I explained to the lady what had happened and she giggled! She apologized and then proceeded with the instructions.

She told me that was one she'd never had before.

Happy Birthday, Mom

Happy, Happy Birthday Mother Dear!
Happy Days will come to you all year.
If I had one wish then it would be,
A Happy, Happy Birthday to you from me!

I hope you have a wonderful day and we can't wait to see you in July!

We love and miss you!

I Am a Little Concerned

I dress Jensyn in pink and usually put a headband or clip in her hair (for as long as she leaves it it in). But, people are consantly commenting 'Oh, look how cute he is!' or 'Look at all his adorable curls!' I know that eventually her hair will grow out some more and she will no longer be mistaken for a boy, but what if

this:turns into this: I'm not saying, I'm just saying!

(and no Jensyn doesn't wear glasses, she just had on Carly's)

That Doesn't Even Make Sense

**WARNING** **RANT**

In NC, starting in the third grade, students must take End of Grade tests (EOGs). Because Carly has an IEP (Indivualized Education Plan) and is pulled out for both reading and math, I kind of assumed that she would be exempt from those tests or at least have a modified version of those tests. I approached her resource teacher earlier in the year concerning those modified tests. She assured me that no, because Carly was in a regular classroom for any instruction (science, social studies, etc.) that she would not qualify for the modified EOG. I spoke to a friend of mine with a student in another school in the county. She said that her child would be taking the modified EOGs. I went back to Carly's teacher with this information and she again reassured me that she had called her superior and was given the same information. She even had printed documentation from DPI (Department of Public Instruction) that seemed to back up their case.

Fast forward to the end of the school year. Carly takes the EOGs and bombs! When I say bomb I don't mean she didn't do so well. On one of her tests she was in the 1%. But, I stepped back and realized, how in the hell was she supposed to do any better than that?! This test is third grade math and reading material. Not only is she not on a third grade math and reading level, but she isn't even in the classroom when this material is being presented. A genius couldn't even do well. Is this what No Child Left Behind has given us?

Now while all her friends are discussing their math and reading scores, she has nothing. My friend's daughter took her modified EOG that was based on the information and skills that she was learning this year. She aced it! She is so proud that she got a four like all of her friends. I feel like Carly was robbed of this accomplishment. No matter how hard she tries, each year at the end of the year, she will FAIL!!! If I were her, I wouldn't even try, what's the point?

I am letting it go this year. Carly does not know what she got on her tests. She knows that she is going on to fourth grade and that is really important to her. But, this fall I am going to start the fight to change her testing. I have fought these battles over and over and over. I swear it is a never ending battle. Each time something new comes up, it is like starting from day one.

I know that Carly is not like other kids. Not other kids with Down syndrome or typical kids. GET OVER IT!!! Is any child just like another child? Does society have to compartmentalize each and every person? ADD, ADHD, Autism, Down syndrome, Cerebral Palsy, etc. Each child with one of these diagnoses is a CHILD FIRST! Get to know the child, form the IEP (yes, that first letter is I for INDIVIDUAL!!!), and then form a game plan. I know it is hard work, I taught her everyday for the first five years of her life, I do her homework with her every night. She is a smart girl who deserves better. She knows it and I know it.



I appreciate all the time and effort that a teacher has to put in every day. I am grateful that Carly has been lucky enough to have had great teachers who expected the best and I think they got it!

I Am Not Paranoid After All

I have gotten some ribbing for having a private blog. I have read on others' blogs how they don't understand how people can actually think that someone is going to stalk them or try to steal their children after reading their blog. Well......
IT HAPPENED! No, no one stalked or took children. But, my sister in law, who was the one who suggested that I make my blog private from the beginning, had someone who was leaving comments with not nice links. She had all the safeguards on her blog, but it still happened to her.

So, PPPBBBLLLLTTT! to all you naysayers. I hope that my sister-in-law will continue to blog so that I can see her adorable kids, even if she has to go private and just invite me!